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July 21, 2005

Is There Any Hope For Me With Affirmations? -- S, California, USA

Hi Sunny,

I am S. I have 3 children aged 8, 7 and 6. I also have a husband to whom I have been married to for 10 years and has made my life miserable. I very often feel fearful and powerless. He treats me like a door mat. I do not have a credit card and have no financial freedom. Also he is very hot tempered and beats the children for any little fault of theirs. He has also beaten me in the past. What is most disturbing to me is him shouting and verbally abusing the children and beating them. He tells them often that he will smash their face. and if I interfere and tell him not to beat them and be cruel to them he tells me that he will hit me too. Oneday 2 weeks ago, he beat my daughter who was ill that day for not finishing her food in her plate and going to sleep. He actually beat my girl who was sleeping. So I asked him why he is behaving this way and he tells me that if I interfere in this he will smash my face and disfigure me and I said I would call the police. Well, since then he has not spoken to me. He now sleeps in a separate room and the kids have been noticing it too. Since last week, I have been doing some baby sitting for 4 other children and so I am hopeful of making some money of my own. He does not help in any work around the house. Spends hours in front of the computer and TV. I have had enough of this man. But the kids do not want a separation especially because we now live in a new house which has 5 bedrooms and a pool.
Is there any hope for me with affirmations. WRite to me.

Additional Comment -- From Sunny :)

There's always hope with affirmations.
Positive thinking opens doors to using your mind to create the conditions in life that you want.
If you have positive thoughts, you can change your circumstances.
However, I don't believe you can change other people.

I do NOT know what is best for you.
I know that for myself I would not tolerate such treatment from a spouse.
I would also remove my children.

When my body or my mind are being abused,
my feet don't stand around.

I know this is easier said than done.
I'm not an expert in the field of abuse - physical or otherwise.
I hope you can get some help - some assistance from someone who is an expert in this.

What do you really want for yourself?
What do you want for your children?
How important is a big house and a pool to you?
How important is freedom and joy and happiness to you?
How important is love and care and tenderness and kindness?

Affirm what you want for yourself and your family.
Much Love and Joy to You and Your Family!

Posted by Sunny at July 21, 2005 09:21 AM


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